Nurturing Our Humanity

Riane Eisler and Douglas Fry have provided us with a description of the world cultures built on goodness rather than conflict in their book, “Nurturing Our Humanity: How Domination and Partnership Shape Our Brains, Lives and Future.” I received my pre-publishing order in September and it ‘follows me around the house.’ This is my favorite […]

Enneagram Workshop III ~ Relationships Part 2

Using the Enneagram to Understand and Refine Relationships with Heather Carlile, MA, LPC-S Friday, November 15, from 1:00 to 4:00 PM 3CEU’s ~ $75 or $65 by November 13 Training Room, 801 E. Campbell Road, Richardson, TX 75081 Complete Info / SIGN UP » WORKSHOP: This is not a class, it is a workshop. MY […]

The Connection Between Stress and Disease

MIND & BODY ~ INSEPARABLE: Here, I share a brilliant and practical lecture by one of our most articulate pioneers, Dr. Gabor Maté on The Connection Between Stress and Disease. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ajo3xkhTbfo This lecture was posted one week ago on August 15, 2019! I have the good fortune to be viewer number 9,163 and to give […]

International Womens Day Dream – Equals with Our Men

Friday, March 8, 2019, is International Womens Day. Yesterday, I wrote this dream for us: EQUALS WITH OUR MEN If I were a woman who came from a time when we were equals with our men, and what we created was sublime, I would pause, aghast, and look again. What has happened? How can this […]

DFW Behavioral Health Symposium

2019 Presenter I am thrilled to be one of the presenters at the 2019 DFW Behavioral Health Symposium! My topic is: “OuchRage: How Brain Development & Health are Hijacked by Hurt. How We Have Failed Our Injured and How to Help Them Heal.”  

2019 ~ Speaking

My NSA-NT Member Power Portrait for 2019 Heather Carlile, MA, LPC-S heathercarlile.com heather@heathercarlile.com 214-636-5889 Topics: Mentoring a Generation in five subjects. PURPOSE: Mentoring for Mission ~ ReWriting Your Future COUPLES: Mentoring for Marriage ~ Designer Marriage FAMILY: Mentoring for Parenting ~ Keeping Our Teens On Track HARDSHIPS: Mentoring for Healing ~ Knowing & Preventing OuchRage […]

OuchRage ~ Part 1 of 7. Little Kids

INVESTIGATE UNRAVELLING: Over the course of our lives, so much has continued to trigger the disconcerting unravellings of our times. We can honestly step back to consider events through a view expanded by bringing problems to light without blame or finding fault. Rather, investigating for what was missing.  We have been missing the knowledge of […]

Mentoring a Generation

Mentoring a Generation Connecting the Dots of Life The Artful Use of Vast Information We are starting a generation based on the artful use of vast information and the focused implementation of schooled abilities in order to build a healthy life. PURPOSE: Mentoring for Mission Mentoring a Generation’s Identity ~ MAGI. Seven Building Blocks of a Healthy Life. […]

The Immediate Influence of Good

On Labor Day 2018. Daily, my dedication to labor dwindles. I am tired and dampened. The rising and swelling pregnancy in me grows heavy I can feel that weight before birthing. And, I feed me mindsets of beauty, Moments of touching my cat, Thanking my husband, Humbled by the loveliness and peace of our home. […]

Top Parenting Resources

As a couples or marriage counselor, my first question is, “Do you have kids?” If, “Yes,” then I want to know how the children are doing. Children and their health reflect the quality of their parents and their parents ability to have a good relationship and to keep a home and a family secure. If […]