People Jazz Podcasts

Posted on May 12, 2023May 12, 2023 by Heather

The People Jazz Podcasts Jonathan Johnston and I have performed People Jazz over time and realized that it was a collaboration that had to go public! We have been performing […]

Self-Forgiveness in Grief

Posted on March 2, 2022April 6, 2022 by Heather

We all need a time for letting go, confessing and receiving absolution from ourselves or a healer. We are human, we make mistakes and we feel guilt, regret or resentment. Those emotions drag us down away from our optimism, hope and creativity. Having an annual ritual of letting go keeps us positive.

A Wedding isn’t a Piece of Paper

Posted on June 13, 2021June 13, 2021 by Heather

It’s the month of June which invites weddings. I am saddened when I hear someone say, “A wedding is just a piece of paper.” It has inspired me, repeatedly, to […]

Reverence for Time

Posted on September 26, 2020September 27, 2020 by Heather

Reverence for Time The tender flames of passion lick the soft and infinite folds of my soul fueling outrage that neighboring beings blithely deny reverence for time. A wasp threatening […]

Hardships & Resilience: Life’s Great Teachers

Posted on August 27, 2020August 30, 2020 by Heather

Hardships & Resilience: Life’s Great Teachers PURPOSE AND MISSION: Almost all of us agree that the purpose of life on Earth is growth and service. Yet, many of us become […]

Grief ~ The Dark Place in the Middle

Posted on May 16, 2020August 30, 2020 by Heather

Grief – The Place in the Middle Grieving is the place in the middle… The dark place in the cocoon… between the Old Dream and the New Dream. It is […]

Mentoring a Generation

Posted on September 9, 2018January 17, 2019 by Heather

Mentoring a Generation Connecting the Dots of Life The Artful Use of Vast Information We are starting a generation based on the artful use of vast information and the focused implementation of […]

Chill Chops! or How “Downshifts” Enrich My Marriage

Posted on January 21, 2011April 5, 2014 by Heather

I took a week off near St Petersburg, FL after presenting The Enneagram at one of the Yellow Ribbon conferences for the Army before immersing back into my life in […]

My New Website for Marriage Counseling and Individual Counseling

Posted on December 31, 2010January 30, 2011 by Heather

Welcome to my New Website for both Marriage Counseling and Individual Counseling: heathercarlile.com We’re still working on it, but it’s already packed with lots of useful information about what makes […]