OuchRage: Complicated Grief and Trauma

The LifeStyle Building Building Blocks Model is my synthesis of what research shows are the trusted elements of a healthy and happy life. I devoted myself to a model which would illustrate all elements for our internal abilities and the dimensions of daily life so that there are no blind spots.

The first column on the left illustrates the development of the seven parts of Identity which is the task for adolescent learning.

Then, in the second column those abilities are expressed as our Purpose or the mastery of those talents.

The third column shows examples of how those abilities can be implemented as a part of our Mission or the type of service we offer the world.

The OuchRage Model diagrams the general ways people cope with the deprivation or wounds which are experienced through the growing up years. When these hurts are left unhealed and when grief is avoided or incomplete. Our internal Protector will try to defend from more hurt and will try to avoid the pain with distraction or dissociation or numbing.

Building Blocks of a Healthy Life

Building Blocks of a Healthy Life

 

OuchRage: Hurts & Ordeals Without Healing

OuchRage: Hurts & Ordeals Without Healing

 

 

 

 

 

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