Heather Carlile, M.A., L.P.C.
Dallas Area Marriage Counseling / Relationships, Stress, Grief

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Childhood Heros or Fairy Tale Role Models Handbookfor Professionals and Parents

When we discover the story or role we identified with in our childhood, that story becomes simply an emphasis on some of our talents rather than a role which can bind us to an
unconscious script enslaving us with old habits. …more


Fairytale Role Models
For a limited time you can download my Powerful and Proven “Fairytale Role Models” Audio Program for just $69.95 $39.95

Childhood Heros or Fairy Tale Role Models – Audio Book
Audo Book Read in the Studio by the Author with her commentary.This information-packed CD is the audio companion to Heather Carlile’s Fairy Tale Role Model Study Guide. Listen to the author on audio CD while driving, or doing repetitive tasks, or as you use the Study Guide. Heather reads the contents of the study guide aloud while
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Childhood Heros or Fairy Tale Role ModelsSeminar Recorded Live
2-CD SetHeather Carlile in the Classroom

PERSONAL INTERACTION: This recording enables you to experience Heather’s personal mentoring in the classroom helping her students identify their childhood role models and how they became life scripts.
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Grief RecoveryA Journey of Spiritual and Psychological Growth

by Heather Carlile


Healing from Losses and Woundsfor Professionals and for those who have suffered a loss.

Emotional pain is not a sickness. Feeling sad, angry, guilty and afraid is mourning. It is our natural and healthy emotional response to traveling the unpredictable path through loss, discouragement, disempowerment and adversity. Emotions show us what we care about and they guarantee that we move forward. Grieving ensures that we heal from our losses and wounds through letting go, accepting the loss and facing the future. …more

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Childhood Heros – Fairy Tale Role Models Study Guide 

For Professionals and Parents

When we can identify the story or role we identified with in our childhood, it emphasizes some of our talents and it no longer holds us to an unconscious script which may carry bad habits.

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A PATTERN FOR LIFE: During our childhood growth and learning, most of us identified with role models and ideals based on a favorite hero or a character in a story. Those views of life become our personalities and lifestyles. We can understand some of our habits through identifying those old traditional or archetypal patterns. At that point we can question whether they reflect our true ideals and goals and avoid self-sabotage. The study guide walks you through keeping the gifts and removing the invisible curses you carry unconsciously as a result of what was missing in how you were scripted.

DISSOLVING THE LIMITATIONS: As in most tales, the efficacy of the fable or the character is not universal and, therefore, inherently provides strengths while it also disempowers by exclusion. We can strengthen ourselves by learning how we recognized positive qualities and developed them. We can also reveal how the archetype or role model illustrates our limitations
and continues to hold us back by fooling us into believing we also possess and are limited by the missing or under-developed aspects of the personality or the lifestyle in the story. Some people have a group of characters
that illustrate one archetype such as in the superhero: Superman, The Hulk, Batman or Spider Man. Some people may not have bonded with a tale and, instead, had a pattern of play, outdoor adventures or of favorite
games as the first archetypal role.

PREPARING OUR CHILDREN: Through learning how our own childhood influences affected our life scripts, we may also learn how to select recreation, television, books and movies to school our children. Through the stories, myths and role models they experience, we can help ensure their self-esteem, character and success with abilities in all aspects of a good life: self-confidence, motivation, intimacy and competency. Heroes and heroines can be our source of greatness and happiness.

Childhood Heros or Fairy Tale Role Models Audio
Book
Audo Book Read in the Studio by the Author with her commentary.

This information-packed CD is the audio companion to Heather Carlile’s
Fairy Tale Role Model Study Guide. Listen to the author on audio CD while
driving, or doing repetitive tasks, or as you use the Study Guide. Heather
reads the contents of the study guide aloud while adding commentary and
coaching throughout.

AUDIO BOOK WITH COMMENTARY: Heather Carlile reads her study guide coaching
you through the step-by-step process in The Childhood Heros or Fairy Tale Role Models Study
Guide
. This is one of the most powerful and enjoyable ways she has developed
for her private practice and workshops to zero in on strengthening some
of your abilities and stopping some of your most pervasive unconscious
self-sabotaging patterns.

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Through the years of working with clients in my private practice and students in my classes, I have sought, discovered and created various methods for helping people heal, learn and grow. We have learned that most human beings use a fraction of their potential. I aim to rely on that latent greatness in each person and to invoke its abilities for practical empowerment.

When you examine the personalities and lifestyles of your favorite role models through your early years, you will find a surprisingly accurate picture of your aspirations to be a good person and to adapt to adversity.

We learn by example what is conveyed and what is NOT conveyed. With knowledge of the gifts and the curses, we can understand how to take advantage of both lessons: keep the gift and avoid the shadow. My wish is that, like my private practice clients and students, you can benefit from my mentoring through this interesting and accessible concept of archetypes for yourself and for the children in your life. May this guide awaken meaningful insights
and inspiration.

Childhood Heros or Fairy Tale Role Models Seminar
Recorded Live
Heather Carlile in the Classroom

PERSONAL INTERACTION: This recording enables you to experience Heather’s
personal mentoring in the classroom helping her students identify their
childhood role models and how they became life scripts.

HEATHER CARLILE LIVE: This two-CD set is a companion to Heather Carlile’s
Fairy Tale Role Model Study Guide. When we can recall the story or role
model we identified with in childhood, we can be grateful for the strengths
we developed but, also, expose the qualities we missed. The role model
can then no longer hold us to an unconscious life script.

She shows how to identify each person’s story or character and how
they inspired or assisted you as children. Then you can hear how the individuals
discover that their most cherished heroes and heroines hindered them with
invisible biases.

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Grief RecoveryA Journey of Spiritual and Psychological Growth

by Heather Carlile

This Study Guide was created by Heather and is used in her Grief Recovery
Groups. Order Heather Carlile’s Grief Recovery Guide as a book or
download it immediately as an ebook.

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Table of Contents
I. Understanding Grief
Natural Responses to Loss    1

You Know You’re Grieving When    2

Identify Your Sub-Losses    3

Help Others Help You    4

II. Letting Go

The Three Stages of Grief    5

The Grief Model    6

Permission to Grieve    7

The Four Tasks of Mourning    9

The Seriously Ill    10
III. Broken Dreams

Releasing Those You’ve Loved    11

Those Who Have Loved You    14

Loss is Losing a Dream    15
IV. First Two Stages of Grief

Purpose of Denial    17

Purpose of Anxiety    18

V. Importance of Writing

Letter to God    19

Writing and Journaling    20

The Benefits of Journaling    23
VI. Emotional Intelligence

The Purpose of Depression

The Purpose of Guilt

The Purpose of Fear

Adversity Inspires Growth

What Do I Say?

Listening

VII. Understanding Anger

Anger is Normal    29

Expressing Anger Appropriately    31

Using the Power of Anger    33

Laughter and Humor Even When Grieving

VIII. The Stress of Grieving

Taking Care of Your Physical Strength    35

Touch and Nurturing    35

Water – The Universal Cleanser    36

Free Fun!    37

Manage Stress and Learn to Relax    38
IX. Spiritual Support

Meditation and Prayer    39

Prayer Partners    41

Master Mind Partnership    41
X. Why God Gives Troubles

Adversity Inspires Growth    47

Acceptance of Reality    47

Acceptance Scroll    48

XI. Forgiving and Blessing

Taking Responsibility    49

Removing Internal Emotional Blocks    49

Forgiving Others and Yourself    50

5 Steps to Forgiveness    52

Blessing Scroll

XII. Finding Faith

Seeing the Signs of God’s Love    54

The Vision Quest    55

Fear Becomes Faith    55

Discernment Scroll    56

Recommended Resources    58

After Awhile    60

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